![]() Although it's disgusting the way that sissification has been weaponized against transfeminine people by transphobes, everyone has a right to the kinky fantasies and (consensual) play they would like to engage in and it’s not sissies’ faults that transgender people are oppressed. Transfeminine people feel all sorts of ways about this kink: fetishized and degraded, aroused and affirmed, or even introspective and artistically inspired. Even some trans women who already know they’re trans enjoy the fantasy of sissification, engage in sex work that plays with these concepts, or even identify with the term sissy. That being said, sissification can be an arena for people to experiment with their gender expression and explore their identities, and that’s wonderful too. In fact, the association between sissification and trans women has more to do with the way that trans women are fetishized and stigmatized and less to do with any possible similarities between sissification and being transgender. Sissification media often uses the concept of getting typically trans surgeries and going on hormone treatments as a sort of titillating frightening erotic concept, but for transgender people in real life these are gender affirming not kinky indulgences. Trans people, like people generally, don’t stop being their gender outside of the bedroom and they certainly aren’t living their lives in a state of 24/7 sexual roleplay or headspace. ![]() Transgender experience is infinitely varied, but overall trans people’s genders are not a form of sexual play. That being said, to be a sissy is not to be a woman who’s transgender. The truth is, gender and sexuality are complex, nebulous topics and everyone can choose how they wish to define their own desires, experiences, and identities. If you’re trans or an ally to the trans community this might be setting off some alarm bells for you, and if you’re not particularly educated on trans issues, you might be wondering if sissies are the same thing as transgender women. Now, let’s address an issue before we get any further. ![]() For some people becoming a sissy is just a fantasy, for others it’s a part of their kink dynamic/s, and for others still it’s a lifestyle. Often sissy fantasies revolve around the protagonist unwittingly (or foolishly) exposing themselves to corrupting forces which “sissify” them, such as hypnotism or other media about sissification. When this transformation is pushed onto the sissy by someone else this is often called “ forced feminization,” which some people consider a synonym to “sissification.” However, many sissy stories do not include this coercive narrative per se. Sissification fantasy narratives are often about cis men being compelled to adopt a feminine presentation and typically feminine social role: in other words, to become a “sissy.” More often than not, this includes sexually “ servicing” or being penetrated by men, although many sissies are not particularly interested in men as romantic partners. Sissification ranges widely, but most sissification has one thing in common it fetishizes the movement from masculine to feminine in presentation and/or identity. Along the way, we’ll dispel common myths and address some of the harmful ideas that circulate in sissification spheres. ![]() We’ll explore the eroticism in sissification fantasies, ways sissification can look in real life, and how you can start exploring being a sissy if it appeals to you. So, let’s talk about sissification kinks and what it means to be a sissy. Instead, “sissy” can be a kinky headspace, a sexual role to take on, or even an important part of one’s identity. But for some people being a “sissy” isn’t an accusation to defend oneself against. As a term, it has its roots in that perfectly horrible trifecta that seems to dictate toxic masculinity: misogyny, homophobia, and transphobia. It’s also sometimes used as a slur against trans women and transfeminine people. Have you ever been called a sissy before? As you probably know, “sissy” is a derogatory term that’s used to describe men or boys as weak, effeminate, cowardly, and/or gay.
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